Of Puppies and Pussies
Puppies…warm, soft and inviting. Irresistible. You just have to kiss and cuddle and croon over them, lavish them with a silliness reserved only for the playfully vulnerable. Puppies …they make you melt on the inside. Your defenses are down and your heart is open. That is unless you have been hurt by one.
A good woman should be soft, playful and as inviting as a puppy. Someone to make your heart melt. A good woman is like a sigh that brings you back to who you really are. Someone that opens up all your being and allows you to shine, and be…
I weep for all the men wounded by women who were wounded by men wounded by women. This vicious destructive circle that fucks us up good and proper. But someone, somewhere has to trust again to break the cycle.
If you’ve never really experienced melting and fusing essences with another soul and becoming one in love making, chances are you are still spinning in the hurt cycle. Break out of it. There are good women out there, just wanting to pour their heart into you, but if you are in the hurt cycle, chances are high that you will miss her, blow her off, judge her with dark glasses that distort her words and actions into something cruel and not to be trusted.
Imagine a puppy and the joy and openess you feel, the ease with which you embrace it and allow it to enter your heart. Hold that feeling and then picture a woman. A new woman, a woman of your deep heart, and then call out to her and draw her to yourself. If you can do this, and hold this picture fast, and not sway back to the hurt image, then miracles will happen and your dream woman will appear sooner than you can imagine. Try it. I know it works because I have done it. Firstly there were years of calling and drawing that woman out of my own heart, of setting her free from the hurt cycle. And now, I call out for my lovers and they have come, more wonderful, more unexpectedly rich and encompassing that I could have asked for. And I wait for them to recognise the puppy in me.
